ABUSE

Finally, whats important to watch out for in our families is that of abuse. This can take part within the same roof, or possibly by extended family members or even 'friends'. Bishops have been updated on how to better fulfil both their spiritual and legal responsibilites when the come to knowledge of abuse. This can help the abusee have better help and understand that God has not abandoned them.

If you are abusing and excersing this type of control over somebody, stop it immediately. If you are the one being abused, reach out, you have not been forsaken. There are tools for both parties and a family can recover from this, which is not the same as covering it up.

I think that men might not understand the impact of a raised voice, that type of thing . . . . I don't think I am threatening even if I am speaking in an angry tone. Whereas the 6'3" guy can be threaten-ing if he is speaking in an angry tone.

(Lisa, 27)

The priesthood should not be used to excersise control over anyone. It is the ability to recieve the guidance and protection from the Lord. It is a service tool, not a crown to rule over subjects with.

Review your patriarchal blessing often. It will lead and guide you into the situations that God wants you to be and guide you out of situations that are damaging you. Seek leaders that have you best interest at heart. They will listen and aid you, if they don't, continue to reach out to others to accelerate your recovery.